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Blessings in the Midst of Change

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Sarah, our second daughter, married Justin two weeks ago. Yes, there were a few tears. After all, my baby girl is all grown up. She has a husband and a home of her own. But joy and celebration filled the weekend, not sadness. (Just in case you’re interested, here’s a quick video!)

Sarah + Justin :: Coming Soon from CandleLight Films on Vimeo.

The Bride and her Parents

I heard several people ask my husband if it was hard to “give away” his daughter. His reply: “All her life I’ve been praying that God would provide a godly husband for Sarah and He has. We are thankful and excited about this new chapter in her life.” And I would add that we truly love Justin!

Sometimes the greatest of God’s blessings also brings change. A new son-in-law. A move to another city. A job change. An empty nest. I’m in the middle of all these things and more. I see God’s hand. I sense His activity. But leaving and changing and growing and stretching can still be painful.

God is faithful. He keeps His promises. He will finish the work He began in me. He will guide and strengthen and comfort and provide. My faith may be shaky at times, but the God in whom I place my faith is Rock-solid, unshakeable. In Him will I trust.

 

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Sock Balls for the Glory of God

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My least favorite household chore is “unballing” balled-up, dirty, stinky gym socks before throwing them into the washing machine. “Sock balls” come in several varieties:

  1. Simple sock ball – These ankle-height socks are sweaty and perhaps tinged with dirt or mud around the top. Unpleasant to unball, but no surprises on opening.
  2. Confetti sock ball – These athletic socks have been worn to mow the grass, play baseball, or perform some other similarly dirty chore or leisure activity. Unballing this variety of sock ball unleashes a dusting of grass, dirt, mulch, or pea gravel all over the laundry room floor.
  3. Tube sock ball – These can be either “simple” or “confetti.” What makes these unique is that the length of the sock requires you to stick your hand in to the elbow to turn them right-side-out. Most unpleasant.

Both my husband and our son have been guilty of this heinous crime. My dear husband has lovingly worked to stop this thoughtless habit. He is much better, but he does occasionally place a “sock ball” into the laundry basket.

I mentioned this distasteful chore this morning while teaching a Bible study class on Colossians chapters 3 and 4. The response from the other women in the class left no room for doubt. Women in general dislike this disgusting chore. It was a perfect time to apply the Scripture.

 

And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus. Col 3:17

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men. Col 3:23

One day, a couple of years ago, when I was doing laundry and complaining to myself about balled-up socks, God reminded me of these very passages. Although unballing sock balls is a dirty, thankless chore, doing it is a way to love and serve my family. Doing it without complaining gives glory to God.

I must admit that I still don’t always face sock balls with a smile. But each time I’m tempted to run them through the washer and dryer just like they are, God gently reminds me that I’m really unballing socks for Him.

What chore or task do you dislike or consider drudgery? How can completing it “as working for the Lord” help our attitude and actions?

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Tiny Sparks

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Last Saturday, two wildfires burned 34 structures and more than 16,000 acres in Midland County where I live. Hundreds of additional homes were threatened and all their residents evacuated. At the height of the blaze, the fire was moving at a rate of thirty yards every second.

What caused such devastation? One fire is believed to have been started by sparks caused by scraps of metal falling out of a truck and hitting the road. The other? A cigarette tossed from a car.

Small things really. But this carelessness destroyed property, livelihoods, and forced hundreds of people from their homes. These simple, tiny sparks brought much heartache.

We can shake our heads at the unnecessary pain caused by thoughtless actions. But don’t we regularly do the same thing with our tongues. I know that I do. Sharp words spoken with no thought given to the hearers. Selfishness recklessly voiced. Biting words that cut to the quick and bruise gentle hearts.

James eloquently painted a picture of the power of our tongues.

But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire. And the tongue is a flame of fire. It is a whole world of wickedness, corrupting your entire body. It can set your whole life on fire, for it is set on fire by hell itself. James 3:5-6, NLT

Mankind has tamed many a wild animal, but the tongue cannot be tamed. The tongue – even one that praises God – still pours out bitter water that wounds and crushes. So what must we do? How does a Christian like me – who sometimes harms, but wants to heal – respond to the reality of her tongue? In chapter four, James gives us encouragement and advice for turning from our sin and turning to God:

So humble yourselves before God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come close to God, and God will come close to you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for your loyalty is divided between God and the world. Let there be tears for what you have done. Let there be sorrow and deep grief. Let there be sadness instead of laughter, and gloom instead of joy. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up in honor. James 4:7-10, NLT

Have you wounded someone and need to make it right? God can restore both your relationship with that person and with Him!

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Black Friday Coffee

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Dressed to serve in the cold!

Yesterday morning, Black Friday, I was up at 3:00 am but it wasn’t for shopping. No, I crawled out of bed before Starbucks even opened, to participate in a little community service. Twenty-five people from our church arrived at Best Buy just after 4:00 am with 30 gallons of coffee and hot chocolate to serve the hundreds of people who were lined up waiting for the doors to open at five.

A little advance organization prepared us to give-away about 400 cups of hot liquid in 30 minutes. The crowd was a little skeptical at first, but after friendly greetings and assurance that the drinks were indeed free, they gratefully accepted the steaming cups. Many even interacted with us and asked why we were there. Read more

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Are you a fanatic?

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My friend Jan is the ultimate high school football fan. I’ve know this for awhile, but yesterday I got to see her – and the other Midland High Bulldog parents – in action. The Bulldogs are in the playoffs, so I went to show my support for Jan’s son Clint and a few of the other young men in our youth group who play for the Dawgs. I had a blast!

The game began at noon. Jan arrived at the stadium at 9:45am to get seats in the lower section on the 50 yard line. She suggested I bring ear plugs in case the cheering, jugs full of rocks, and cow bells got to be too much for my delicate ears. But, Jan forgot to warn me to wear my most comfortable shoes. The Bulldog parents do not sit down during the game except for time outs and half-time.

The Bulldogs’ parents are fanatics by definition. I mean this in a positive, complementary way. A “fanatic” is “a person with an extreme and uncritical enthusiasm or zeal, as in religion or politics” (or West Texas football). These Bulldog fanatics are not ashamed of their Dawgs. Their enthusiasm shows in their actions, their speech, and their attire. Yesterday I saw painted faces, purple shoes, purple sun glasses, and purple purses. Jan even has purple highlights in her hair for football season. Now that’s a 24/7 commitment to the team!

She and many of the other parents have been cheering, encouraging, and supporting their sons since they first stepped on the football field many years ago. Their attitudes and actions clearly show their love for their sons and their devotion to the team. They willingly travel great distances and sit out in inclement weather to show their support. Read more

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