Brown Trails, Diaper Pails, and a Hard-learned Lesson

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I spotted the brown goo on Micah’s hands as he crawled past me on the kitchen tile. What is that?

Taking a closer look, I discovered both of my 10-month-old grandson’s hands were smeared with something dark and sticky. The trail on the floor led from Micah’s current location in front of the refrigerator, out of the kitchen, across the hallway, and into his room.

Grandmother learns a hard lessonI was talking to Kelley, my daughter, on the phone. She had just called from work to check on us. As I followed the brown trail, I mentioned to Kelley that Micah had gotten into something and I was investigating.

When I entered the doorway of his room, the answer hit me. Kelley, gotta go!

Used diapers lay scattered and open on the floor. Their previous contents were also dispersed in various locations on the hard wood and area rug.

I snatched Micah up and hurried to the bathroom. First, I conducted a thorough inspection of his face, lips, and mouth. Clean, thank you Lord! Next, I washed his hands and forearms, digging brown particles out from underneath his tiny fingernails. Amazingly, his clothes were goo-free.

The next step was the floor. I plopped Micah in his crib. From his safe vantage point, he watched Nana undo the mess he had made. Diapers. Brown blobs and smears. Floor. Carpet. Disinfectant.

Micah is my first grandbaby. My baby skills were flabby. Nana learned the hard way that the diaper pail is not baby proof. I also got a nasty reminder that it doesn’t take but a moment for little ones to get into something.

Caring for little ones requires diligence, constant supervision, and eyes in the back of your head. I dropped the ball this time, but I learned my lesson. Micah will not get in the diaper pail again on my watch.

Unfortunately, I don’t learn spiritual lessons as quickly. I get myself into a sinful mess, my heavenly Father picks me up, cleans me up, and sets me on the right path. Sometimes I learn to avoid that mess, but sometimes, before long, I’m right back to the same gooey pile.

Oh, Lord, help me to be quick to learn. Help me to respond to your discipline. And thank you for picking me up, again and again.

What about you? Has your heavenly Father cleaned up any of your messes lately?

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If You were Verbed

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I learned a new word during Sunday night’s Super Bowl game.

“Kaepernicking”

Colin Kaepernick, quarterback for the San Francisco 49ers, has become a verb. “Kaepernicking” refers to the athlete’s iconic, celebratory, end-zone bicep kiss.  Although Kaepernick did not invent the upper arm lip press, he did make it famous.

Kaepernicking

“Kaepernicking” – Larry Brown Sports photo

Of course my favorite “verbed” athlete is Tim Tebow.  Call me sentimental, but I get emotional when I see pics of Tebowing high school students trending on Twitter. (By the way, “trending” is another “verbed” noun.)

Tim Tebow

“Tebowing” – Larry Brown Sports photo

The verb forms of Colin Kaepernick and Tim Tebow reveal what’s important to each of them.  The verbs show us something about the character of the Nouns.

According to Kaepernick, he started the bicep kiss in response to criticism over the highly visible tattoos on his arms. “Kaepernicking” visibly states that he has the freedom to express himself as he wishes.

“Tebowing” describes Tim Tebow’s practice of dropping down on one knee to thank God.  And he’s not shy about doing it in the middle of a NFL football game. “Tebowing” gives glory to God for the successes and failures.

What if you were “verbed?”

If what was important to you – your character, your priorities, the way you live your life – were summed up in one verb, what would it express?

I’ve been thinking about this since Sunday.  If “Kathying” began to trend, why would people do it?

I hope people would “Kathy” when they dug deep into God’s Word. Or when they shared the truth of His Word with others. Or when they slowed down to show God’s love to someone else. I would want “Kathying” to be a disciple of Christ in action.

To be honest though, “Kathying” might mean you sit at your desk in your pajamas until noon. Or that you visited Starbucks twice in one day.

Starbucks coffee

“Kathying?”

God’s desire for me – and for you – is that we look like His Son. So ultimately, “Kathying” or “Youing” should remind people of Jesus.

And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:18

What about you? What do you hope your verb would represent? In reality, what might your verb express?

 

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Martha and a Pile of Avocados

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avocadosAs I pushed my cart through the produce section, the avocados caught my eye. I had only picked up a couple to inspect when it started. One, then two of the lovely green fruit began to roll from the top of the high pile. (Yes, an avocado is technically a fruit. I checked!)

By the time three of them had hit the floor, I knew I must take drastic action to prevent disaster. With arms open wide, I blocked the shifting pile with the top half of my body. With one arm and my torso keeping the avocados from falling, I repositioned key pieces with my free hand until the moving stopped.

Hoping the other shoppers hadn’t seen me laying on top of the avocados, I casually moved on to the lettuce. It wasn’t long though until I heard laughing and turned to see that a young woman had just had a similar encounter with the pesky green fruit. Undoubtedly the person who stocked the avocados had gotten a little carried away. He or she had put way too many avocados on the pile. The fallout was inevitable!

Sometimes our lives are like that pile of avocados. We keep adding items to our lives and calendars until we have to stand on tip toe to put another thing on top. Jobs, activities, sports, lessons, ministry work, friends, family, leisure.

We can’t possibly give enough attention to the really important things of life because we are constantly chasing after the urgent things rolling off the pile. If we aren’t careful, the entire pile will shift, roll, and collapse leaving us standing in a gooey pile of guacamole.

I’m not saying that any one “avocado” is bad. But trying to juggle too many avocados will derail the abundant life Christ wants to give us. Martha, the New Testament hostess, is a well-known example.

When Jesus visited Martha and Mary, Martha hurried around with meal prep and household chores while Mary sat at Jesus’ feet and listened to His teaching. Martha was flustered and upset.

But the Lord said to her, “My dear Martha, you are so upset over all these details! There is only one thing worth being concerned about. Mary has discovered it.”

Luke 10:41-42a, NLT

Jesus’ loving rebuke was designed to help Martha escape the tyranny of the urgent and discover the life of peace and joy Jesus offers.

Is your pile too big? Are you missing out on some of what Jesus wants to give you because the urgent has replaced the important? I sometimes find myself with a dangerously high pile!

Here’s a few suggestions to help us take control of the pile:

  1. Keep a time log for a week to discover just where all your time goes.
  2. Ask God to show you what can stay and what needs to go.
  3. Limit your children’s activities. All of you need breathing room!

Have you been held captive to the tyranny of the urgent? What avocados are rolling off your pile? Are you willing to make some changes?

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Discipleship Resources for a New Year

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tea cupAs one year sets and a new year dawns, many of us will take a close look at our lives and determine to do things differently. Many Christians, in a desire to grow spiritually and grow closer to God, will set some spiritual goals. These goals may include areas such as Bible reading and study, Scripture memory, service, missions, and prayer.

If you’d like to set some goals for spiritual growth but don’t know how to get started, check out my recent post, “5 Tips for Setting Spiritual Growth Goals in 2013.”

Spiritual growth does not happen by accident. We must purposefully “train ourselves in godliness” (1 Timothy 4:7). Many resources and tools are available to help Christians with spiritual training. I’ve gathered some here for you to check out.

Bible Reading:

  • “Reading the Bible Together in 2013″ Facebook Group - This group will challenge and encourage you to keep reading! The group uses the same reading plan and comments and discusses the reading each day.
  • Bible reading plans – I have 6 year-long plans on the resources page of this website, free to download. The plans vary widely in daily reading length, so you can choose one that meets you where you are in your spiritual journey.

Bible Study:

  1. “Unshakeable Faith: 8 Traits for Rock-Solid Living”
  2. “Before His Throne: Discovering the Wonder of Intimacy with a Holy God”
  3. “God’s Truth Revealed: Biblical Foundations for the Christian Faith”
  • Women’s Bible Study Cafe – Beginning January 7, this online group will be studying “Experiencing God” by Henry Blackaby.
  • Your church – If your church offers a women’s Bible study group, I encourage you to join. There is no substitute for studying God’s Word with members of your own church body!

 Quiet Time Help & Encouragement:

  • “God is My Refuge” – All of us will face trouble in this life. This 12-week devotional book guides us to discover God’s faithful promises for difficult times and helps us apply them to our lives. Find out more and download a free day’s devotional.
  • Hello Mornings – Thousands of women from all over the world have found encouragement and accountability to make spending time with God their first priority. This online ministry connects women in small community groups. The winter challenge begins January 16th.
  • Quiet Time Tips - free download!

Scripture Memory:

Other resources to check out:

Do you know of a helpful resource for those of us seeking to follow Christ more closely in 2013? Tell us about it in the comments!

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Pride goeth before a puncture wound

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I’ve finally stopped limping. It’s been two weeks since my small accident at a women’spride ministry event.

When I first touched the wrought-iron creation, I made what turned out to be a prophetic observation. “This thing could be the murder weapon in a CSI show. The newspaper headline would read: Woman killed with centerpiece at charity event.” Then we all laughed.

The 3-foot tall iron “tree” was the centerpiece on our table at my church’s annual table top dinner. Its pointy branches held vases with fresh flowers and plates laden with luscious homemade cookies and pastries. Beautiful to look at, but dangerous to carry while wearing high-heeled boots and an “I’m strong enough to do it myself” attitude.

When the event ended, clean-up got underway. I offered to carry the 25-pound deadly weapon to my friend’s car for her because, “I work out.” The length of the branches meant I had to hold it in front of me with my arms almost straight. As I followed Sherry down the sidewalk out to the parking lot she encouraged me to be careful and watch my step. I remember thinking, “She doesn’t realize how strong and agile I am.”

That’s when it happened. Just about the time that prideful thought popped into my mind, my toe caught a jut in the concrete. Thankfully I didn’t fall, but in the course of the awkward forward stumble, one of those hard, pointy branches caught the bend behind my left knee. My skirt and my boot made it through unscathed, but my flesh and my pride both suffered a beating.

God continues to remind me how dangerous pride is in the lives of His children. “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall” (Prov 16:18). Pride keeps our eyes on us and off Jesus causing us to stumble through life – sometimes literally!

Pride creates an unrealistic, inflated view of us and thus an inferior view of God. When I’m prideful, I think too much of myself and too little of Christ. I end up choosing my own way instead of God’s way. That’s very dangerous!

When we humbly work to keep our pride in check we can begin to have a proper view of God. As our understanding of God expands, so does our trust in and dependence on Him. We choose God’s way over our own way. And that’s the best – and safest – way!

How has pride caused you to stumble in the past? How do you work to stay humble?

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