The day was clear and crisp, just perfect for spring skiing. When we arrived at the slope, we purchased our lift tickets, quickly donned our skis, and got in line for the lift. So excited to have a full day of skiing ahead of us.
Four of our group sat together on the quad chair – me, Wayne, our oldest daughter, Kelley, and our friend Connie. About a quarter of the way up the hill the chair lift came to an abrupt halt. That happens fairly often – usually to wait for someone who has fallen getting on or off – so we weren’t concerned. But then minutes ticked by and we remained stopped.
For the next two hours we alternated between long stretches of stillness and brief forward movement. The first time the chair began to move we cheered, but after just a few feet we stopped again. After that, each time we moved we held our collective breaths. But alas, we only moved a short distance.
It was a warm day for April in the Canadian Rockies, but when you’re hanging off the ground in the wind with the weight of your skis and boots pulling on your dangling legs, a chill can set in quickly. The four of us huddled close for warmth and told stories to pass the time.
After about two hours I started eyeing the ground. If I dropped my skis would it be close enough to jump? Then I checked to see how far it was to the closest support tower. Is it possible to shimmy across the cable?
But just before I made a rash decision to act dangerously, someone shouted at us over a bullhorn. “We’ve been working to get the motor going, but it won’t stay running. We’ll try one more time. If that doesn’t work we will get you down another way.”
Another way? Seriously?! What does that mean? Fork lift? Helicopter? Giant eagle?
Just as I was taking another look at the ground, we started moving. All four of us were praying. Fifty feet to the end. Forty. Thirty. Twenty. Ten. Now, stand up and put your skis on the ground!
After more than two hours, no feeling remained in our legs but we managed to get out of the chair and move away from the lift. Petite little Kelley was chilled to the bone so Wayne took her to a warming shack to thaw. Connie and I made our way gingerly down the slope to the lodge.
As it turned out, the resort paid for our lunch and refunded our lift passes. After eating and warming up in the lodge, we spent the afternoon skiing for free. (Well, I guess it wasn’t really “free.”)
For the majority of those two hours we felt like the ski resort had simply left us hanging. We didn’t see any activity on our behalf. We saw very little forward progress. But as we learned later, an entire team of mechanics was working frantically to get us down to safety.
Sometimes life feels like that. Sometimes we may feel like God has “left us hanging.” Sometimes we might think He’s not doing anything while we struggle. But Scripture teaches us the truth:
- God is never inactive; He is always working (John 5:17).
- God knows and cares about every aspect of our lives (Matthew 6:25-34).
- God is all-powerful and in control of every situation (Jeremiah 32:17).
- God is with us in our trials (Isaiah 43:2).
- God is good, loving, and faithful (Psalm 145:17).
When you doubt God is working, when you wonder if He cares about you and your situation, remind yourself of the truth. Even if you can’t see it, He is working. Even if you don’t feel it, He loves you.
Has there ever been a time you felt like God “left you hanging?” In retrospect, how was He working?
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Thanks Kathy! This was great! Just what I need for today!
I would like to address your 5 truths.
#1 – if God is working why don’t I “see” anything that indicates that God is working. If God is working there should be noticeable changes in my life.
#2 – I am sure that God doesn’t care about our lives. If He cares why doesn’t he do anything.
#3 – this is not a truth! God gave us free will to make our choices. Our free will excludes God from control in all situations.
#4 – being with us in our trials is completely useless unless God makes His presence known. I don’t consider silence very comforting.
#5 – yes God is good, but love and faithfulness are in question. Matthew 7: 7-8 says whatever( anything) you ask of God in Jesus name shall be given to you. Since I have never had a prayer answered, I have no choice but question God’s love and faithfulness.
I am not trying to disrespect God, I am just telling it like it is. 40+ years since giving my life to God through Jesus. 40+ years of nothing but silence.
I am glad that you find these scriptures comforting. These scriptures just remind me of how little God cares about me. I truly want to believe that these are true. I just can’t find anything that points to something God did. Thanks and God Bless You, in Jesus name, Amen
Kenneth, thank you for your transparency. I am so sorry your relationship with God feels so silent. Of course I don’t know anything about you, but my first questions would be: Are you vitally connected to a local church?; Are you reading and studying the Bible regularly? (This is the primary way God speaks today.); Have you done the last thing God told you to do, no matter how long ago that was? (particularly getting rid of any sin He has pointed out); and Do you have any close Christian friends or counselors you can talk to. Again, I don’t know your situation at all, so none of these questions may apply. But that’s where I would start.